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With home prices reaching unreachable heights, many new or younger family members have had to buy a home out of town. Then when the babies start arriving and the parents have a career the added cost of child care and all the other expenses of the joys of parenting become real. The Grandparents want to help ! Moving closer makes a lot of sense.
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Here are the Pros and Cons that you should sit down and discuss with your parents for this decision to make the most sense. Nothing and no family is perfect and at times it may prove difficult but family is number one.
Pros:
- More hands-on help with childcare: Grandma can step in when you need a break, allowing you to catch up on some much-needed rest or have a date night with your partner.
- Free babysitting services: Having grandparents nearby means built-in babysitters for those times when you need to attend appointments or run errands without the kids in tow.
- Family bonding opportunities: Your children get to spend quality time with their grandparents, creating precious memories and strengthening their family bonds.
- Passing down traditions and values: Grandma can share her wisdom and experiences with the grandchildren, teaching them important life lessons and instilling family traditions.
- Emotional support and guidance: Having grandparents close by means you have a built-in support system for those tough parenting moments when you need a listening ear or some advice.
Cons:
- Clashing parenting styles: Grandma may have different ideas about child-rearing than you do, leading to conflicts or confusion for the grandchildren.
- Boundaries may be blurred: With grandparents living nearby, it can be challenging to establish clear boundaries and maintain your independence as a parent.
- Feeling overwhelmed by constant presence: While having grandparents around can be helpful, it may also feel like they are always in your space, making it difficult to have privacy or alone time.
- Pressure to meet expectations: There may be pressure to live up to certain expectations or standards set by the grandparents, which can add stress to your already busy life.
- Dealing with interference: Grandma may unknowingly interfere in your parenting decisions, causing tension and frustration within the family dynamic.
Overall, having grandparents move closer to their grandchildren can be a mixed bag of emotions and practicalities. While it can provide valuable support and enriching experiences for everyone involved, there may also be challenges to navigate. Finding a balance that works for your family's unique dynamics is key to making the most of this new living arrangement. Just remember, laughter and patience can go a long way in smoothing out any bumps along the way. #wegetyoumoving
Our Represenative is a qualified and designated SRES (Senior Real Estate Represenative) and if you would like some more Local Knowlege in the Grandparenting Kathy Gordon will offer up first hand knowlege. 
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